Personal Blog
Having been living in Denmark for over two months, I now feel that I have gotten into the swing of day to day life here. I am well settled and am feeling at home with the Danish way of life. I love the relaxed Danish way of life so much that I may return home to Northern Ireland a completely different person, as before I came to Denmark, the word relaxed did not apply to me at all! I’m therefore hoping to take home with me the relaxed atmosphere that I have experienced here in order to help myself to relax more in my daily life in Northern Ireland. I think the Danes have mastered a more healthy way of life. I have settled in here so much so that I have been reflecting on what it will be like when I go home. I think that because I have adapted to a different culture and way of life, it may be strange at first when I return home and it may take a few days for me to adapt again to the culture and daily life in Northern Ireland. One thing which will be a shock for me is having a house with a lot of rooms, as for two months here Kerri, Trisha and I have lived in one room only. I will be spoiled for choice of rooms to sit, eat and sleep in!
Having reflected on what it will be like to have numerous rooms to live in, we got some excellent news this week, that we could move to a bigger room is in the student house ‘Hvidebo’ (which means ‘The White House’ in English). This is the main halls here and it is a converted house with shared communal kitchens and bathrooms. It is where the Danish students and also some Erasmus students live. Apart from having a bigger room, we were delighted with our move as we were beginning to feel isolated where we lived before as we were living in one room which when you opened the door lead to outside, therefore there was no common area and no people passing in and out. The White House provides a completely different atmosphere with people always passing in and out, stopping for chats and cups of tea in the common rooms and generally being a warm and friendly place where we feel a lot more safe and sociable. Living in a closer proximity to some of the other Erasmus students and Danish students allows us all to get to know each other better than before as we can share meals and movies together a lot easier now.
Our new bedroom. |
Our dressing room! |
Although I’m really embracing and making the most of my time here, I am also missing my family, friends and boyfriend at home. Being able to skype them all however, makes it so much easier to keep in contact and makes me miss them less as I can see and speak with them regularly. I feel that I am actually coping better than I had thought I would have in terms of missing my family and boyfriend and feeling homesick. It is a lot easier to overcome these feelings when I am surrounded by such a lovely group of people who are all having the same feelings and are in the same situation as me. It may also, amongst other things, be these similarities that contribute to bringing people from different cultures so close together.
We have booked a trip to Berlin for next week. There are 9 Erasmus students going on the trip, from various countries, therefore I am looking forward to and am interested in what it will be like to travel with and get to know them all better!